How to get a boy like you in middle or high school

Ah! so, you love someone and you want to make them your boyfriend. do not worry. I’m here for you. Today you will know some tips that can make you like him.

Before we go ahead, I want to tell you the truth. You want to have it like you. But whether he likes you or not, it’s all up to him. So you can’t force him to love you. But you can give your 100 percent. And believe me girl, if you’re 100, no fucking guy can say no to you. So, get ready. Below you are going to read some awesome ways that will force him to like you.

Tips for having a guy like you in school

1. Be yourself

Be yourself

The first rule of attracting anyone is to be yourself. Don’t try to go wrong. Show who you are from the inside out. Because in the long run, your real will make your relationship come alive. If faking your personality appeals to him, it is a sign of the cross for you. Because he’s drawn to your fake face, not you.

If you come into a relationship and then show your true personality, he will instantly feel that you are not the one he loved. And that will lead you to a very bad ending. So, to begin with, my humble suggestion is, please be what you are. Don’t pretend.

2. Sit near him

Its very important. Try to sit as close as possible. To make him your boyfriend, you must first get noticed. And how will you be noticed by him if you are miles away from him? Not only to get noticed, but it also has many advantages. You will have a lot more time to talk to him. When he jokes in class, you can laugh or compliment.

Sometimes teachers ask students to form small groups for certain activities, so there is a good chance that they will be part of their group. This gives you more time to spend it with him. Basically, sitting close together gives you a better chance of getting his attention on your side. So don’t miss this huge opportunity, be close to him while you are in class.

3. Try to talk to him

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The next step is to start talking to him. Try anything. Go say hello. Ask for the course notes. Or, if he’s not a student, ask for other help. The only point that matters is a fun conversation. You can talk about whatever you want. Movies you watched last night, a video game you play, or last year’s school trip. There is so much to say. You just need to use them one by one and find the one that works the best.

But there may be a problem that you might hesitate. Sometimes we feel uncomfortable talking to our crush. Then I will suggest you go with your friend. But just a friend. Do not bring your whole group with you as they will start to feel uncomfortable. We feel much more comfortable with our friends. So you can talk much better with your best friend. And also she will keep the conversation light.

Pro tip: Bring with you your friend who is already in a relationship or who is not interested in your man. Because precaution is better than cure. 😉

4. Compliment on him

Everyone likes to be congratulated and so does he. Here we will take advantage of this human tendency. Give him positive compliments. Keep in mind that I gave him a compliment, not the things he has but him. Compliment on his activities or parts of his body.

For example, if he has bigger biceps, you can comment, “Oh, your biceps are so big, are you going to work out these days. This is just an example, you can do a lot better than that. After all, you are a girl and girls know how to handle a guy. It’s in your gender gene.

5. Try to find common ground

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When you start the conversation with him, you will need some topics that can go on for a long time. And the best way to find that is to find common ground. I mean, research the topics that interest you both. It could be games, movies, or sports. There are so many things on the list. You just need to find the perfect one.

If you both love video games like me, ask him what games he’s played before. Find the common and start talking about it. Or, if you like movies, start incorporating them into your conversation. These common topics seem common but they bring immense joy to your relationship. So go ahead and start observing the common grounds.

Topics boys like to talk about

  • Movies
  • Video games
  • Sports
  • Pets
  • Comedy / Humor
  • Phone (s
  • Naughty Talks (Don’t do it on the first date. He’ll start to think you’re vigorous.)
  • etc.

6. Dress like what gives you confidence

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Do you know what makes you so incredibly attractive? Your confidence. If you’re a confidante that’s great and if you’re not then be the one. Dress only in clothes that give you confidence. Don’t worry about what other people think, the only goal is to make you feel confident from the inside out.

If you think you are confident, others should believe it. You know why a lion is more dangerous than an elephant, even though it is smaller and weaker than an elephant. With his confidence, Leo brings the confidence that he can kill anyone, no matter their size, power or intelligence. This confidence makes him the king.

This is what you need to chase that hot guy away. Incredible confidence can make you the queen. So honey, choose those clothes that make you confident, not the one that makes you look good.

7. Excessive makeup can kill his attention

In middle and high school, most boys are attracted to naturally looking girls. So if you are the one who takes inspiration from these big celebrities and buys the makeup products by watching their commercials. So please stay away from them. I’m not saying you should throw them away. If you want, you can use them. But use it on the very small amount as they are very visible.

8. Participate in school activities

It can have a big effect on your situation. While I was in high school I used to notice a girl who was active in all activities. At that time, I didn’t know why I love him. I used to think it was my fate. But now I know it wasn’t fate. It was his activities that I liked the most.

So the ultimate suggestion here is to participate in all possible activities. If you get active everywhere it will improve your personality and automatically every guy will start to be attracted to you.

9. Tease him a little

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Have you ever seen a cherry on the cake? The cherry is not mandatory there, it will still be good without the cherry. But the cherry multiplies the look and the taste. Teasing is the cherry in a relationship. Your relationship can be good even if you don’t use it. But if you use this weapon it can give your car an extra boost.

One thing to keep in mind that teasing has a limit. If you don’t control him, it can shame him. Try to tease him a bit but don’t shame him. I know you are good at teasing but I just called it back out of caution. So, keep teasing and enjoy your relationship.

Caution: Try to tease him but don’t shame him.

10. Talk to him outside of school

If he’s having fun with you at school, try talking to him outside of school too. Connect to Facebook, ask for his number or any other means. You can join the same tuition courses he joined. The ultimate motto is to spend more time with him.

Pro tip: Try Facebook first instead of asking for the number directly. Because on Facebook, the worst thing he can do is not accept your friend request. So go ahead and click that Add Friend button.

11. Be friends with his friends

Make mutual friends. Friends who are already his friends. If you are connected by his friends, there could be many additional benefits. You can connect to them easily because you will be more confident in front of them because you don’t like them. I know you hesitate in front of the guy you love so that his friends can be the easy target.

Being friends with friends can have many benefits like, they will give you all the insider information. They will make you more open to your man and help you communicate. And if you’re lucky, who knows that one of them will help you get your boy’s attention to you.

12. Try group hangouts

group hangout

Group hangouts are really fun. I am a big fan of it. We all enjoy it with our friends and then we think about how much fun it can be with him. Just ask him that. You can choose any good place to enjoy it. But then the main question comes to mind before asking is “What if he said no to the hangout”.

If he says no, it can create a very intense and shameful moment for both of you. For this situation, I have a pro tip. Read it below.

Pro tip: Ask him for a meeting place while he is with his friend. And he is also your friend (mutual friend 😉). Ask him and his friend too so that he cannot refuse directly and your mutual friend will help you be successful.

13. Don’t be a stalker

All of the above advice that I gave you is to help you attract him to you. But you have to give it its space. You have to get close to him but don’t be a stalker. Give it its space. Don’t follow him everywhere he goes. Otherwise, you’re all done.


Everything I have told you is the best for the basic level. But that’s not all yet. I have something that can make you a queen. This is a collection of all the skills that trigger any guy’s hero instinct. With these skills, you can drive any guy crazy for you. Check it out Love guide be the queen of your school’s attractions.

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