How to message girls on tinder without being matched?

Almost everyone has heard of Tinder. And most of them have created their Tinder accounts. But the problem is that they create their account and close it after a few days. Why? Because they are not getting what they expected. The men thought they would get a good match but the reality was the opposite. They don’t get a single match. And so, they are disappointed. So in this blog, I’m going to show how you can message Tinder girls without being matched.

To send a message to a girl without being paired, here are the steps to follow:

  1. Open your Tinder account.
  2. Look up the girl’s Insta ID on her profile
  3. Access your Insta profile
  4. Send him a message

Above are the four simple steps you need to follow to send him an unmatched message. But there is so much more to know. Above you will find the steps, but below I have explained all the steps so that you don’t get confused. As you read on, you will also get some tips that I got from experience. So, keep reading to message him and succeed. 😉

Steps to text a girl on Tinder without being paired:

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Now let me confess one thing to you. There’s no way you can text a girl inside Tinder without being matched. But you can message that little girl outside of Tinder. We’ll take Tinder’s help and message them somewhere else.

Some guys suggest that the only way to message her is to save her profile picture. Then find the image on Google Images. It may work but I will never suggest this. Because the first thing, you are very less likely to find it on Google images, as websites limit this for security reasons.

And second, if you’re lucky you can find someone. But the problem is, it’ll require a lot of extra work that isn’t worth it. And if you use my suggested method, you can message multiple girls in the same amount of time with caution. So, below are the steps of the method I suggest to text Tinder girls unpaired.

1. Open your Tinder account

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The first step to having a girl is to open your Tinder account. I know you already have an account, but if you don’t, create one. To create your Tinder account, visit the Tinder tutorial on creating a new account. Here you will get a step by step tutorial to create your Tinder account.

And if you already have an account, please login. Go to your Tinder account and read the next step. I mean the next step that I have shown below. 🙂

2. Start swiping and find the Instagram ID

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This second step is the most important and the main meat of the content. So read it carefully. How do you normally look for girls on Tinder? Let me tell you how you do it. You start your sweeping process in search of hot girls.

As you see a sexy girl you instantly swipe right thinking that she will come back too. And if you don’t like the girl, you swipe left to undo her. Most guys never see their profile. Men think who cares about the profile. All they want is a hot girl.

But the main problem is that it will never make you back down. In fact, it is much less likely that she will look at you. Because the Tinder algorithm will never show you because you are a free user. Tinder pushes its premium user towards girls. They show their profile to girls, not yours.

So you need to tweak your balayage style a bit. Use the style mentioned below.

  • Use it as I will show you. Start swiping and find their profile picture. But not just the profile picture. You should also check their profile.
  • In the profile, find his mentioned Instagram ID. Now one thing to keep in mind is that you won’t find the Instagram ID every time. Sometimes you will find it and sometimes not. Because they put it on their own. So, some girls mention it in their profile and some don’t.
  • If you found their Instagram ID mentioned in their profile, copy it. And now you have to slide to the left. Yes, you heard that right, there is no mistake. I said left on the side of this cross. This is because Tinder has a taste limit for free users. And we only need his Insta Id. We have no intention of being matched.
  • If you can’t find the Instagram ID mentioned in the profile, swipe left and continue. Go get the next girl on the list.

Now if you have the girl’s Instagram ID then go to step 3.

3. Access their Instagram profile

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You now have his Instagram ID. So go to your Instagram profile and search for it. Now go to his Instagram profile and start watching him. Some girls keep their accounts private and others make it public. If their account is private, send a follow-up request.

And if their account is public, take a look at their profile. And don’t be greedy. Read step 4 before sending him a message.

Point: Try to message only those girls who have very few followers. Because you have better luck with it.

4. Send a message to the girl

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So, you are in her Instagram profile and ready for the post. But wait. There is more to learn.

If their account is private, you need to send them the follow-up request first. And if you’re good at texting, you should text him.

But if their account is public, you are more likely to get it. It is a fact that girls get a message from boys all the time. And you shouldn’t have to be one of them in the crowd. You must be different.

For that, like some of his posts and comment on some of them. Don’t do it a lot because it will start to look scary. You have to do it within a limit. The best practice to keep it good is to only like posts that deserve it. Comment only on those where you think you should.

Now is the time to send him a message. Go send him a message with a nice opening. Don’t say hello or hello. These two words are mood spoilers. It makes you boring. So go show off your texting game and grab her. Now it all depends on your phone gaming skills. 😉

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Hey, like I said above, it all depends on your phone skills. Now your skill will decide if it will be with you or if you will be stuck. Texting is the first impression you leave on her. So if you’ve mastered it, the ground is your guy. Go party.

But if you are average or below average in this area. If you’ve never gotten a girl’s number by texting, you need some training. You have to improve your phone game. If you want to learn this skill I suggest you this SMS training program to improve your phone game.

Once you have mastered this training, you can drive any girl crazy by texting. I know it will cost you a bit but it’s worth it. Now is it all your decision, what do you want, money or some valuable skill?


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