You meet a lot of people, however, there is never a stimulus. They can look great on paper or even look quite appealing, however, something is always missing. You don’t feel it.
We live in a world of social media where everything is becoming virtual by the day. We socialize, hang out, strain and again, absolutely nothing is happening. Online dating makes it easy to get to many dates in a short period of time, which doesn’t always bring you more quality.
Here’s the main reason you’re not attracted to anyone:
You are still in love with your past love:
You are nominally single. however, your heart is not. Sometimes you subconsciously remember this person. Yeah, I know you’re not touching that person right now. Plus, you might break up with him or her. Everyone you meet, you compare a person to that and you feel like you will never find them again. You are sure they have been the best match for you.
Remember, if you mix the two together, you will never like anyone and you will never be attracted.
You might think that love only happens in the movies.
Keep one thing in mind that love happens in movies and novels because love happens in real life. There is no myth here.
Now the kind of love shown in the movies is a bit of a stretch. I mean, I am not denying that these situations cannot arise at any time to anyone. But those you watch or watch are rare or will not happen to you.
It also happens in reality, whenever you feel love for someone, no doubt what will be different, the butterflies will start. You will start to take care of nature and everything will look great to you. You want to see her, talk to her and smell her all the time. Its appearance will only look you up. You will love its childish nature. You will accept it as it is if all of this happens, love also exists in reality.
The myth of love at first sight
Love at first sight is an old adage used when people explain their relationships. When you look at the real meaning of the sentence, it turns out to be somehow impossible.
In fairy tales, princes and princesses get married after having understood each other for a day or less. This is not how it usually works in the authentic world. If love, at first glance, was in fact a valid description, then you wouldn’t even have to go out on a date because it’s real love, right?
The myth of the perfect partner
I’m sure you already know that there is no such thing as a perfect partner. In my personal and expert opinion, the idea of a Perfect Partner is a myth. The myth of the perfect partner often leads us to have unrealistic expectations of others (and generally of ourselves), which can cause a lot of emotional pain in and out of relationships. My belief is that many qualities of someone with strong relationship feelings, commitment to the relationship, etc. can then be qualities which cannot be seen with the eye but rather felt through the heart and soul.
The myth of being single
A relationship is not an insurance policy for joy, fulfillment, or satisfaction. A relationship won’t surprisingly solve or cover your problems. The only way to know if your unfavorable beliefs are to blame for your single status is to change them. I strongly advise you to give it a try and just observe what happens.
Share these top 5 reasons to your friend who finds he or she isn’t attracted to anyone because of their false beliefs.