Hey buddy, she won’t let you touch her. And this situation creates many questions in the mind. Lots of questions like, does she love me? Does she have another boyfriend? Is she thinking of dumping me? And much more. But one of the most common reasons for this is. She won’t let you touch her because she’s not ready for that now. She is afraid of something like her relatives, her virginity, the relationship between you or anyone else. These are not only possible reasons. There may be many more. And in this blog, we’ll talk about whatever comes to my mind right now.
Reasons why she refuses to approach
1. She’s not ready for what you want
We men are always ready to act. But this is not the same with women. They are types of emotional creatures. They believe in feelings and in love. She will never get closer until she starts to trust you fully. And your confidence is built by your actions on a normal casual day, not when you want to have fun with it. This line doesn’t mean that she doesn’t trust you at all. It only means that she needs more time. So the best thing you can do here is respect his feelings.
2. His mood is bad these days
You know what the biggest mood spoiler is. An already spoiled mood. I mean it may be possible that she has a problem these days. And if you want to have fun in this situation, it is very difficult to break through. How can she get into a light mood if she is going through a difficult time? So if this is the case, you should talk to him and clarify it. So go ahead and approach her. Who knows she will give you your reward for solving her problem.
3. She thinks she’s not sexy
Our mind creates a perception based on past experience. Many think that they are weak now because in their childhood they were beaten by others. And this bad past experience makes them think they are weak, no matter how strong they are. The same rule applies to everything. A lot of girls think they are not sexy anymore based on their past experiences. But the reality can be the exact opposite.
So she can be one of those girls who thinks she’s not sexy. And that’s why she won’t let you approach because you won’t like her. And if you don’t like it, you’ll break up with her. She may be wrong, but she doesn’t know it. So, in that case, you should talk to him. And let her know that she’s super sexy and that you’ll love being with her.
4. She thinks what to do if someone sees you doing this
Parents are those creatures whose only job is to keep following us. Whatever you do, they will follow everything to find a negative no matter how good you are doing. And it may be possible that she is afraid of these creatures. She thinks if either of those sees you together. They will make all conditions worse. So if she’s afraid of it, go find some private space and give her a good solution.
5. She heard it was painful (sex)
If your daughter is a virgin, she may be afraid of pain. She heard somewhere that it was hurting her very much for the first time (which is absolutely true) and therefore she didn’t want to do it. In this case, the best you can do is respect his feelings and educate him about it. let her know it hurts a bit after it’s total fun.
6. She is not a virgin and is afraid of it
You have heard that if a girl is a virgin she will be afraid to be physical, but if she is not a virgin it will ask her questions. She thinks you are the kind of guy who values virginity a lot. These guys who judge a girl by her virginity. She is afraid of the situation where the blood will not come out so what do you think. If virginity isn’t important to you, go talk to her. Let her know that it doesn’t matter to you.
7. You approach her at the wrong time
You may be approaching her at the wrong time. Everyone has different timing when turned on for sex. So the first question that should come to your mind is that your timing matches its timing. Or you approach her at the wrong time. If she is talking about a very important topic but you are narrowing her speech for your purpose, then now is definitely the wrong time. So, first of all, identify the right time and give it a go.
8. She wants to do it after the wedding
A lot of girls think it’s a sin to do this stuff before marriage. She can be one of them. This is not the only case where his religion does not allow it. It’s also possible that she wants to do it after the wedding, not now for no reason. So if that is her choice, respect her feelings and keep showing your love.
9. She thinks you are unattractive
Everyone is better on their own. But a lot of people start to judge someone with a narrow point of view. It is possible that your daughter is one of them and that she thinks that you are not attractive. And that’s why she won’t let you get close. But don’t worry, it’s just how it looks to see you. Whatever she thinks, let her think. You are the best and keep learning to be the best version of you. If she’s happy with you, then let her go and find someone else. Because you deserve better.
10. She’s dating someone else and you’re just a puppet
Sorry to say, but it’s a possibility. If she doesn’t want to get closer, there are possibilities that she is dating someone else. And that another guy is much more important to her than you. She is with you because you are a tool for her. Maybe you meet some of its requirements.
What can you do about it
The above is all she thinks about. Now if you want everything to be under your control. Then you have two options.
- First of all, you talk to her and change as she wishes. Whatever she loves, you will. So in that case, chances are she’s attracted to you to do whatever she wants.
- And second, you get better. Be the best version of yourself. Be such a guy that no one can refuse.
I will suggest you approach for the second option. Because of the problem with the first option is that you end up and are someone else. You lose your dignity. But in the second option, you improve all the way to the top.
Girls love bad boys. They never accept this truth but you can see in your surroundings. If anyone is tough on your neighbor, I’m pretty sure they have their long list of girlfriends and love stories. So if you turn into a badass, you’re done. You will have a long list of girls who will be crazy for you.
So if you know someone who can train you to be a badass, then go learn from them. Or, watch this Badass training guide to know everything. This guide will teach you all the tricks that can make any girl go crazy for you.